If you’re wondering how to send flowers to someone in Russia without knowing the exact address, you need to handle the process correctly and choose a delivery method that relies on contact-based coordination, not just a street and apartment number.
This article explains practical, real-world methods that keep your gift thoughtful and your delivery smooth without turning it into an awkward interrogation.
First, a reality check: what you can and can’t do without an address
Let’s be honest: some delivery information is almost always required for successful delivery. But the good news is that “address” doesn’t always mean “exact apartment number written on a sticky note.”
In practice, deliveries can work with:
- A phone number so the courier (or florist) can coordinate
- A city and a few location hints
- A workplace name, a hotel, or a pickup-friendly location
- A recipient-confirmed address collected privately (so you don’t see it)
Your job is to choose the method that fits your situation and your relationship.
Option 1: Use phone-number-based delivery coordination
If you don’t know the address but you do have their phone number, you’re in a strong position.
Why the phone number matters
Couriers often need to call for:
- building entry instructions
- confirming the recipient is home
- clarifying a location detail
- rescheduling if the first attempt fails
This isn’t unique to flowers: many delivery systems treat a phone number as essential for coordination and notifications. For example, parcel services commonly require a recipient’s phone number because they use it to contact the recipient about delivery status (or pickup instructions).
How to keep it a surprise
You can ask for their number (if you don’t have it) in a natural way:
- “Hey, what’s the best number to reach you? I’m sending something soon and don’t want it to get lost.”
- “Can I grab your number? I’m planning a small surprise and want it to arrive smoothly.”
It’s not suspicious. It’s normal logistics.
Option 2: Have the service request the address from the recipient privately

This is the cleanest “keep it a surprise” method if you don’t want to ask for the address yourself.
How it works (in human terms)
You place the order and provide:
- their name
- city
- phone number
- a note like “Please contact the recipient to confirm delivery address/time.”
The recipient gets a message or call from the delivery team:
“Hi! We have a delivery for you. What address and time works best?”
You never need to see the address. The surprise stays intact, and the recipient doesn’t feel like you were snooping.
Best for:
- long-distance relationships
- online friendships
- “I know them well enough to gift, but not well enough to ask for their home address.”
Option 3: Deliver to a workplace (if you know it)
If you know where they work (company name and general location), workplace delivery can be a great alternative to a home address.
How to make workplace delivery succeed
Provide as much as possible:
- company name
- building address (or business center name)
- department/team name (if relevant)
- recipient’s phone number
- Note: “Please deliver to reception/front desk and call recipient”
When to avoid this
- If the recipient works in a high-security building where outside deliveries are restricted
- If they’d feel uncomfortable receiving gifts at work
- If the workplace address is “kind of” known but not reliable (that’s a failed delivery waiting to happen)
Option 4: Deliver to a hotel, event venue, or concierge-friendly location
If they’re traveling, staying at a hotel, or attending an event, these can be surprisingly easy delivery locations because the staff helps coordinate the handoff.
What you need
- hotel name + address
- recipient’s full name (as used for the booking)
- phone number
- delivery timing window (align it with check-in hours or event schedule)
Pro tip
Ask the recipient a casual question that doesn’t spoil anything:
- “Are you still staying at the same hotel this weekend?”
- “What time are you usually back at your place in the evenings?”
It feels like a conversation. It’s also logistics.
Option 5: Use a pickup-style surprise when home delivery isn’t possible
Sometimes you have no address and no phone number, or you’re trying to avoid both. In that case, consider a “pickup” approach:
- Ask them to choose between two cafés (you’re “planning a meet-up idea”)
- Ask which neighborhood they’ll be in on a certain day
- Send flowers to a location they already plan to visit (with their consent)
This method is less “movie surprise,” more “sweet and coordinated,” but it still feels special, and it reduces delivery risk.
The key details people forget (and then blame the flowers)

Apartment buildings can be tricky
Many residential buildings require:
- entry codes
- intercom names
- building/entrance numbers
If you don’t have those, a phone call becomes essential. That’s why phone-based coordination is your best friend when you’re missing address details.
Timing matters
If the recipient is likely to be busy, choose:
- late afternoon or early evening deliveries for home
- mid-day deliveries for work
- avoid super early mornings unless you know they’re up and available
Cultural note: don’t accidentally send the “wrong” bouquet vibe
If you’re sending a stem-count bouquet (like “12 roses”), be aware of a common tradition in Russia: odd numbers are typically used for happy occasions, while even numbers can be associated with mourning.
Many arranged bouquets aren’t about stem count in an obvious way, but if you’re selecting “X roses,” it’s worth remembering.
Safety check: avoid scams when you’re ordering internationally
When you’re ordering across borders, use basic online shopping safety habits:
- Make sure payment pages use https
- Read delivery and refund policies
- Keep your confirmation email and receipts
What to write on the card when it’s a “coordinated surprise”
When the recipient is contacted to confirm delivery details, your message matters even more because it restores the romance. Keep it simple and human:
- “I wanted you to have something beautiful today. I hope it finds you at the perfect time.”
- “No big announcement—just a small reminder that you’re important to me.”
- “Saw something that made me think of you, and I couldn’t NOT send it.”
A practical checklist before you order
If you don’t know the address, try to have at least one of these:
- recipient phone number (best)
- workplace name/address
- hotel/venue details
- city + neighborhood + availability window
Add a delivery note like:
- “Please call the recipient to confirm the address and delivery time.”
- “If the recipient is unavailable, please reschedule via phone.”
Final thoughts

Not knowing someone’s exact address doesn’t have to stop you from sending flowers to Russia; it just changes the strategy. The safest and most realistic approach is recipient-coordinated delivery: you provide their phone number, choose a reputable service, and let the delivery team confirm the final details directly with them. That way the flowers arrive fresh, the surprise still feels intentional, and you avoid the stress of a missed delivery.

