Having a baby is a huge change. .It doesn’t just change your body, but it changes who you are fundamentally to your core. It can make you more ambitious and more willing to achieve things because you have a baby that you want looking up to you. It can make you more soft on the inside if you’ve spent your life feeling like you’re in a fight – but it can also make you more anxious. They say that having a child is like having your heart walking around outside of your body and it is but in a way that makes you panic a lot.