The division of household labour has long been a topic of discussion, reflecting societal expectations, gender roles, and the evolving dynamics of modern relationships. One of my university dissertations was a comparison between the division of labour in the UK and Japan. While progress has been made towards achieving more equitable distribution of responsibilities, persistent challenges continue to shape the way household chores are divided. In this article, I will explore the changes that have taken place in the division of household labour, as well as the enduring obstacles that hinder true equality.