Watching a parent slow down is one of the quieter, harder experiences of adult life. You notice the small things first. A forgotten appointment. A fridge that is not as well stocked as it used to be. Steps taken a little more carefully than before.
The problem with BMI calculators
Do you know your BMI? Do you care? Whilst I absolutely agree that being healthy and fit is important, and, whilst these things are personally important to me, I honestly think that it can be really dangerous to solely focus on either the scale or what your BMI is.