While so much of motherhood is about giving, not every mother receives the same care in return. Many mothers still have someone to mother them, offering comfort, reassurance, and encouragement. Others must navigate the challenges of raising children without that safety net. Whether through loss, distance, or broken relationships, some mothers face the journey without the guidance and support they once knew or never had.
Becoming a mum is one of life’s most joyous experiences, but it also comes with its fair share of unexpected challenges. One aspect that many mums-to-be overlook is postnatal bleeding. Despite extensive reading and preparation, the reality of bleeding after birth can be far more intense and prolonged than anticipated. Here’s my personal journey through four births, shedding light on the truths no one tells you about postnatal bleeding.
When I had my first baby, I quickly discovered that everyone has an opinion on how to raise children. From well-meaning friends and family to health visitors and online forums, there’s no shortage of parenting advice for new parents in the UK. Add to that the stack of books and leaflets I’d collected, and I felt overwhelmed. But if there’s one thing I’ve learned on my motherhood journey, it’s this: it’s your baby, and it’s your choice how you nurture and care for them.
Mornings can be an absolute circus when you’re a mum. You’ve got the usual parade of responsibilities—packing lunches, finding missing school shoes, and refereeing breakfast table bickering—all before 8 a.m. Sometimes it feels like you deserve a trophy just for getting everyone out of the house with (relatively) clean socks on. But, you know what? You can make your mornings not only more effective, but more enjoyable as a mum
As a mum, you take on numerous responsibilities to ensure everyone in your family is taken care of. But while nurturing others may take precedence, don’t overlook the need to stay mentally sharp yourself. Aging gracefully doesn’t mean accepting mental decline. On the contrary, do activities that keep your mind agile and vibrant. In this blog, I’ll look at strategies and lifestyle changes that can help unlock mental fitness, empowering you as an aging mum with wisdom, wit, and a sharp mind.
Motherhood is a transformative journey, both physically and emotionally. As your body and life undergo significant changes, it can sometimes feel like you’re losing touch with your former self. Many new mums find themselves struggling with self-esteem and identity after childbirth, but it’s important to remember that this phase is a time of growth and exploration, not loss. Rediscovering confidence and embracing the possibilities of who you can become through motherhood is essential for your overall well-being.
Motherhood is often described as a journey, a beautiful adventure filled with love, growth, and endless joy – But what about those moments when it feels like you’ve lost your way in the midst of this journey? When the demands of parenting overshadow your sense of self, leaving you feeling adrift in a sea of nappies, tantrums, sleepless nights and later, a taxi service? Being lost in motherhood is a common experience, yet it’s one that often goes unspoken. In this article, I will explore the complexities of this journey, and offer some guidance on how to navigate through the wilderness of motherhood to find your way back to yourself.
I remember when I had my first baby, because she wasn’t the best sleeper, the first nights when she did sleep were the hardest, it was like I forgot how to be a human, paralysed by the fact that I actually had a bit of time to do something else. Thinking of what to do when you are not looking after the baby is for some reason such a challenge (aside from sleep yourself that is), so what are some of the best things to do?